(Closed) Bouquet and Garter Toss or Not?

posted 5 years ago in Reception
  • poll: Should we toss the bouquet and garter?
    No - toss that idea away! : (48 votes)
    51 %
    Definitely - it's a fun tradition! : (22 votes)
    23 %
    Toss the bouquet but not the garter! : (20 votes)
    21 %
    You should only toss the bouquet and garter if you're in your 20s. : (5 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
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    1805 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    I’m definitely doing the bouquet toss, my group of friends seem to love it. We’re also doing the garter toss even though my Fiance thinks it’ll be embarrassing lol… I really don’t think you have to be in your 20s to do this! that being said I’m 24 and my fiancé will be just shy of 29 at the wedding

    Post # 4
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    47 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I am in my 20’s and not doing either. Personally those are two traditions that I would like to see die out. 

    Post # 6
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    701 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    We just did the bouquet. My family tried to pressure us into doing the garter toss, but I just find it awkward. 

    Post # 8
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    2966 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @marisa84:  same here. 

    Post # 9
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    9142 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

    If you are into it and you know people attending the wedding will participate then go for it.  We just don’t have enough single friends so it would feel like we were singling them out for not being married since many are in committed relationships, just not married.  Plus the thought of one of his fraternity brothers carrying around my garter is just icky.

    Post # 10
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    2775 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    I was married at 27 and did neither.  The bouquet toss bothers me because I don’t like the implication that single women are all desperately chomping at the bit to get married.  Just seems really outdated and unfeminist.

    And the garter toss is so cringeworthy.  Nobody wants to see your groom rooting around under your dress; save the removal of each other’s undergarments for your hotel room.

    Post # 11
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    249 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    We are skipping that tradition as most of our family/friends are married or in relationships. He has only 2 or 3 single friends and I have 1!! All my girls are married!! Lol.

    Post # 13
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    8696 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I am doing the bouquet but not the garter toss. Last wedding I went to the garter toss was weird and kinda nasty. I dont want to keep stopping the music for different things. I find it annoying.

    Post # 14
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    1132 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We’re both in our mid-20s and we’re not doing either.

    Post # 15
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    553 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Do you think your friends will have fun with it, or would it be a flop? I think it depends on the energy of the room and your guests, you know? I don’t think it has to be determined by the age at all. And for the bouquet toss you could let all the ladies participate, not just the single ladies…that way you don’t have to “single” people out. In fact, I think that would make it more fun.

    I am 27, and he’s 32 and we are skipping both traditions. I’d get too embarrassed because that’s just how I am. I don’t turn my nose up when other people do it, but I don’t like being “singled” out for the bouquet toss one bit. 

    Post # 16
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    8461 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I’ll be 33 on my wedding day and we’re doing the bouquet toss with a little twist.  We’re including everyone (guys, girls, single, married, and in-between) and we’re giving away a movie date night (2 tickets, giftcard for snacks) to whoever catches it.  We’re skipping the garter toss though.

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