Post # 1
Lately SO is acting strange. He is being much more affectionate than usual. And he is being kind of secretive about his finances. He used to allow me look at his online bank statements but now he does not want me to.
I am 99.9% sure that he is not going to pop the question this holiday season. I still have to meet his side of the family, but on the other hand he is not close to his family at all (specially his mom and dad- it is too long a story).
He has met my side of the family and I kind of mentioned to him that he needs to ask my dad for my hand before he is going to propose.
Do you think that he is getting ready and planning for the coming months? What are the tell tale signs? Opinions highly appreciated
Post # 3
That’s so exciting! 🙂 Honestly I mean it sounds like he may have bought a ring espeically with the whole fianace situation…But guys are so strange! Haha Ive known there to be sure signs there will be a proposal and then sometimes the guy totally says I dont want to get married for a long time, I’m not ready at all to confuse the girl and then propose the next day! 🙂
I think that if you asked him to ask your dad first I’m sure he will do that…:) Good luck!! And Congrats! 🙂
Post # 4
I think the telltale signs are different for everyone. My guy didn’t act weird until the proposal day…he called me at work several times that day when he normally didn’t call me or it he did it was only once in a day. Later I found out that he was calling me to see when I was getting off work since I mentioned I might leave early & he wanted everything set before I got home. 🙂
Post # 5
yay! i knew when FIwas going to propose, so i watched him all day (we went to charleston for the weekend) it was the sweetest thing ever, he was so nervous. (he didnt know that i knew)
I think they all tend to act a little different, some may be more affectionate while others could be so nervous they almost seem standoffish….if he is being more affectionate i say thats a great sign! good luck and keep us updated!
Post # 6
He could be! You NEVER know. 🙂 I was 99% sure my Boyfriend or Best Friend would never be my Boyfriend or Best Friend and now we’re talking about marriage. Weird behavoior is definitely a red flag, ESPECIALLY is he’s all mushy. I would be suspicious…
Post # 7
Oooh that does sounds promising!! However, I thought my bf was going to propose back in November on my bday because of how he was acting (being really sweet, texting me more during the day, etc.) and he didn’t propose :'(
BUT… he is still being really sweet and texting me a lot during the day!! I sure don’t mind the extra attention from him, but I’m very doubtful he will propose this holiday season. Poo.
Good luck to you!! Not letting you see finances is a very good sign though, so even if he isn’t buying a ring, maybe he’s buying you something awesome for Christmas?? I’m sending you good luck vibes!!
Post # 8
Oh wow sure sounds like something is coming soon!!! I think him not allowing you to see his bank statements is a big hint (making payments on something?). Hope it happens soon.