(Closed) Boyfriend acting weird

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
247 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

That’s so exciting! ๐Ÿ™‚ Honestly I mean it sounds like he may have bought a ring espeically with the whole fianace situation…But guys are so strange! Haha Ive known there to be sure signs there will be a proposal and then sometimes the guy totally says I dont want to get married for a long time, I’m not ready at all to confuse the girl and then propose the next day! ๐Ÿ™‚

I think that if you asked him to ask your dad first I’m sure he will do that…:) Good luck!! And Congrats! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
5398 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think the telltale signs are different for everyone.  My guy didn’t act weird until the proposal day…he called me at work several times that day when he normally didn’t call me or it he did it was only once in a day.  Later I found out that he was calling me to see when I was getting off work since I mentioned I might leave early & he wanted everything set before I got home. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
6998 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

yay! i knew when FIwas going to propose, so i watched him all day (we went to charleston for the weekend) it was the sweetest thing ever, he was so nervous. (he didnt know that i knew)

I think they all tend to act a little different, some may be more affectionate while others could be so nervous they almost seem standoffish….if he is being more affectionate i say thats a great sign! good luck and keep us updated!

Post # 6
478 posts
Helper bee

He could be! You NEVER know. ๐Ÿ™‚ I was 99% sure my Boyfriend or Best Friend would never be my Boyfriend or Best Friend and now we’re talking about marriage. Weird behavoior is definitely a red flag, ESPECIALLY is he’s all mushy. I would be suspicious…

Post # 7
797 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Oooh that does sounds promising!!  However, I thought my bf was going to propose back in November on my bday because of how he was acting (being really sweet, texting me more during the day, etc.) and he didn’t propose :'(

BUT… he is still being really sweet and texting me a lot during the day!!  I sure don’t mind the extra attention from him, but I’m very doubtful he will propose this holiday season.  Poo.


Good luck to you!!  Not letting you see finances is a very good sign though, so even if he isn’t buying a ring, maybe he’s buying you something awesome for Christmas??  I’m sending you good luck vibes!!

Post # 8
667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Oh wow sure sounds like something is coming soon!!! I think him not allowing you to see his bank statements is a big hint (making payments on something?). Hope it happens soon.

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