(Closed) Boyfriend is driving me crazy!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@laughs:  Mine is doing the same thing (I posted a thread a week or so ago about if theres a shut it up pact for SOs).  I totally feel ya. He thinks he’s being so cute and funny. Today I texted him to tell him I got to work and he wrote back “I love you my beautiful (my name + his last name)”  I wrote back “Not my name, pal.”  And I get some “not yet ;)” text back.

I think its payback for me bugging him so much the last 2 years: now he knows i’m trying not to discuss it, he’s going to do it.

Post # 5
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964 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

maybe he’s planning to propose sooner than ‘within 2 years’?

Post # 6
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11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I don’t really understand what the problem is about talking about it with each other? You guys SHOULD be having important marriage talks long before you’re engaged so you guys know that you’re on the same page with things like finances, kids, religion, etc, etc.  Why would you wait to have these conversations until you’re engaged when you’re already very much invested? Or worse, never talk about it and get married and figure it all out down the line when it’s harder to get out.

 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@MrsWBS:  Hmmm… I didn’t really perceive the complaints as “avoiding talking about marriage” period. I’m sure the OP and PPs are cool with serious talks about the future (money issues, stance on kids, etc.) – it’s more the silly jokes SOs make about being married/engaged when the GFs are trying to patiently wait. I know my SO is serious about our timeline, but he also tells everyone at the bar when drunk that I’m his “future wife,” blah blah blah. It’s like, “If you see me that way, PROPOSE already!” I understand the frustration.

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@laughs:  Oh, I gotcha! Well, at least you know it will come at some point! 🙂 Enjoy your stress free relationship before the planning craziness hits! good luck!

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