Boyfriend is so close with sister

posted 2 months ago in Relationships
Post # 46
56 posts
Worker bee

Nope. No conversation will fix this. Run. 

Post # 47
121 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

Ummm…while this is reminding me that I’d like to rewatch “The House of Yes” as apparently my husband doesn’t remember it, I think you might want to end the relationship.😧

Post # 48
6117 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

Fitzy :  

You’re right—that would be great fun.  I’m old school, but I recognize the tremendous value in CBT.

Speaking of old school—BF Skinner was all the rage during my early grad school days.  Talk about dating myself.

In any case, that was what jumped out at me—the bf has expressed unambiguously that he does *not* want to change a thing.  Which, by itself, makes the entire situation hopeless.

I get hives thinking about bringing kids into that family.


Post # 49
306 posts
Helper bee

OP, are they twins? I hear that twins are bit more attached than non-twin siblings. 

Even still, I agree with everyone else that this relationship is probably not going to progress in the way you’d like, if at all. :/ 

Post # 50
280 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

DeniseSecunda :  She said they are 5 years apart… and this is much more than “attached” RUN OP. Seriously. His defensiveness tells you all you need to know. 

Post # 51
1214 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016 - Painswick Church and the Falcon Hotel

Too weird for me!! I’d be gone 😳

Post # 52
270 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

iliketurtles82 :  That is hilarious! I mean, not good for the OP, but nice reference. LOL.

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