- 5 days ago
l don!t have much to add to the perfectly good advice/commentary pps have already given- except to say l was struck by the lack of emotion other than annoyance and dissatisfaction in your post. It was singularly free of love for fi, for instance . It was about getting married, not married to him. You also mention, rather briskly, that things better happen in the order you want because you are “ saving yourself for marriage” by which l understand you to mean no sex? In which case l’d hold off on the house buying unless you plan to rent it out , as you two presumably can’t live in it together. In any case , not a great idea to buy a house with someone you aren’t married to and who you aren’t quite sure wants to marry you.