(Closed) Boyfriend’s A Jerk… Happy Birthday To Me

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
3142 posts
Sugar bee

Please do not move in with this guy.

Post # 4
661 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Oneeleven: I agree here. 

He is being a jerk.  I hope your day turns around.  Happy birthday hun

Post # 5
367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@Oneeleven: Agree. Complete A$$. I’d put some distance between you and him to see what happens. I wouldnt let him get away with acting out like this.

Happy Birthday!!! Do something nice for yourself tommorrow or this weekend – massage, nails, etc.

Post # 6
10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

@dragonlover: What?! I thought he said he had something planned?! Are you not seeing him at all tongiht now?! What the heck?! I’m sorry hon. What a huge let down. I’d be pissed off too. Do you want a swarm of angry Bees to come get him? 😉

Post # 7
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I think a break up is in the near future, not a wedding. I think he’s pushing you away and didn’t tell you he was moving because he is moving away to Florida as you had thought.

Post # 8
5885 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

First of all–Happy Birthday!

Second of all– explain to me why you want to stay with this guy?!

Post # 9
1730 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Geez, I’m sorry.  I want to wish you a better birthday.

(If I’m understanding the time frame right, it’s still your birthday, today, right?) Is he simply not talking to you, could he have a plan but be waiting for 7 PM to enact it?  Has he said he won’t be doing something with you because he’s busy?  I know my Boyfriend or Best Friend has pretty uch had people ‘forget’ until he got me to a ‘surprise’ location… not trying to get your hopes up, but they day isn’t over, so maybe he isn’t ignoring you, he just sucks at surpirses?

I was really hoping he’d be doing something great for ya’ll in light of your recent discoveries about his living situation.  I’ll keep my fingers crossed he’s just a terrible surprise planner, coming off all wrong when he means well?  Ort hat you go ahead and go out with some GFs for dinner and wine, regardless of his plans or lack of plans. 

Post # 10
4109 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

For what it’s worth, Happy Birthday & I’m sorry Frown

Post # 11
962 posts
Busy bee

I am so sorry you are going through with this. I really hope he surprises you tonight. If he doesn’t come through, I would seriously reconsider moving in with this man.

Post # 12
1036 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

First of all Happy Birthday, and I 100% agree with your closing sentiment.

Give yourself some distance.  Plan something with your girlfriends to do a birthday weekend celebration, and get some self-pampering in today if you have time.  You deserve it. 

Sounds to me like he is testing you, and doesn’t get that it is really insensitive (in general), but especially on your day.

Post # 14
2892 posts
Sugar bee

Happy Birthday! Hope the rest of the night gets a little better.

But that’s really confusing though. Has he said at all why he’s suddenly so pissed? I’m sorry any of this has happens. It’s bad enough on any day, but your birthday? That’s not ok. Definitely try to get out with your girls. You deserve at least one celebratory drink.

Post # 15
10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

@dragonlover: Are you kidding me? Nearly $400 on miscellaneous crap but not $50 for his GF’s birthday?! Dude, make your own plans and go have fun. Screw that! Jerkface is right!!!!

Post # 16
827 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Is it too late to schedule a massage?  Or even a manicure pedicure or something?  I’m sorry hun.  I hope you get to enjoy your birthday!

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