Boyfriends female friend jumped on him

posted 9 months ago in Relationships
Post # 61
1482 posts
Bumble bee

NeedAdviceQuickly :  Honestly op I would bring it up to your boyfriend because the type of hug is a little too overly affectionate for my liking if you don’t bring it up to him then he is going to assume that there is nothing wrong with that type of interaction. The one thing that did stand out to me was that he never mentioned it to you. Regardless you deserve to know if 

1. They had a previous relationship before you.

2. If she has ever expressed feelings like this toward him prior

and not to mention why on earth he thought this type of embrace was acceptable.

Post # 62
250 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

desertgypsy :  but clearly the OP isn’t comfortable with that amount of affection that another women is showing her man that’s the difference. No one is saying giving an opposite sex friend that much affectionate is wrong in and of itself if both parties are ok with it (which you and your husband are) thats the difference. Obviously this girl feels its inappropriate and she is entitled to feel that way without being told she is wrong because she has different comfort levels than what you are ok with in a relationship

Post # 63
579 posts
Busy bee

soexcited123 :  Once again you’re posting on an old thread about an SO’s female friend. Maybe you should start your own?

Post # 64
215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2007

Big huggers hug everybody. 

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