(Closed) Boys PMS too

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sorry that your Fiance is being mean right now.  Sometimes with guys if they are in a bad mood you have to leave them alone for a bit or their mood gets worse.

Post # 4
Member
2000 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I’m so sorry girl!! That sounds like something I would do to my Fiance. Haha, guys aren’t usually like that out of nowhere? Maybe it’s something bothering him at work. Make him dinner tonight & have a heart-to-heart with him. Maybe he’ll own up and it’ll clear his mind.

Post # 5
Member
35 posts
Newbee

I agree with MissAsB, in my experience if Fiance is mad about something it is best to give him some time to cool off and not make him talk about it.  When he’s ready to talk, he’ll come to you.  Sometimes they just need to figure it out on their own though.  Good luck!!

Post # 7
Member
1566 posts
Bumble bee

This is really tough to deal with. I love my Fiance to death, but if I have a horrible day at work I sometimes take it out on him. I didn’t realize how much it upset him at first, honestly, because I thought it was obvious that I was b*tching about work, not him.

If I were you, I would try not to get mad back at him – just show him how much it upsets you when he acts like this, and try to talk to him about it when he’s not in a bad mood. At the same time, I think you should accept the fact that you guys will have less quality time together while he adjusts to his new job. We just graduated college and both started working in finance, so we went from seeing each other for over half of each day to 1-2hours daily. And usually too tired to actually talk or do anything when we get home. So I know it’s not fun, but hang in there, and hopefully it’ll get better soon! 

Post # 9
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t think it’s that he doesn’t value time with you but guys really do have so much of their self worth wrapped up in their jobs and if they feel like they are failing at their jobs, they feel like they are failing at the rest of their lives.  Hopefully, things will get better with his work soon and you two can have time together to just relax and enjoy eachothers company.

Post # 11
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Poor guy.  I hope the drama stops soon at work.

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