Post # 46
- Wedding: June 2007 - City, State
I have not logged on in ages but came to say I don’t wear a bra either, have not for about 3 years now. I am a B but also plus size. I wear a cami under almost everything. I have noticed my boobs are actually PERKIER because my chest muscles and breast tissue has changed to support my breasts with no bra! Fancy that. I am smaller chested and thankful for that. Bras are so fucking uncomfortable. And I could never find one that didn’t make me look like I had fake stiff tits. My mother is conservative like this woman you mentioned and my 11 year old is starting to develop breasts…and I just buy her camis so she feels more covered (her choice).
Post # 47
I mean I don’t know what else there is to do. I don’t know your relationship, maybe she really thought she was giving you advice. Depending on how close you are, I don’t think it was that rude. You responded good too. Nothing really more to do
Post # 48
Wow, you’re lucky you CAN go without a bra. I was leaking everywhere or everytime I heard a baby cry at that point. I needed something to hold the pads in place!
Post # 49
Just coming to say the same thing . Girl, we invented it, lol !
Post # 50
I think most women of an older generation would be surprised to see you going braless. It’s just a generational thing. xo
Post # 51
I leak sometimes but honestly I dgaf! Ive got layers on and baby needs me and easy access not unperky nips
Post # 53
right? It seems to be a common misconception that women our age were running around in corsets and bloomers way back in the “olden days” LOL!
Seriously though, the ignorance about recent history is somewhat disheartening.
Post # 54
I work for a family business and handle marketing. And not wearing a bra has never been a problem. I usually wear a polo type shirt, but I do wear camisols if I am wearing a light colored top. No one needs to see everything, except for my fiance’. And there are times when I will wear a bra. I was just surprised she would comment.
Post # 55
I would be surprised too, sounds like you handled it well though.
I’m jealous though, I have huge boobs that desperately need a lift, it’s been nice working from home and not having to wear a bra lol.
Post # 56
I remember a time when I could go braless as I used to be small. As I got older I put on weght and now the puppies are out roaming unless I round them up. Do what makes you happy and comfortable.