- 2 years ago
- Wedding: September 2018
sarahparkview : Great point! I have asked myself this as well. Before I moved, he went through a bout where he wasn’t making quite as much as he wanted. HE GOT A 2ND JOB and worked nights. His rationale for not doing that now is, why should he have to since I’m making enough. He thinks he just needs to wait for the one great job he deserves. But in the meantime, bills still need to get paid and savings saved.
Yes, I am the only one contributing to the savings. I didn’t know what to do about that because I know we’re getting married and I didn’t just want to say, THIS IS MINE. But, it’s not fair to make it both of ours when he has put nothing in it.