(Closed) Breakdown :( I've never done this!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Blushing bee

I have been there done that!

Don’t worry!

Last month I got mad because my flat iron’s cord was all tangled up…..so I threw on the groud. I felt my better afterwards! I got over it and untangled the cord and I did my hair! lol

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@alotlikelove:  Oh lord, all the time lol.  I am sorry you are having a bad day, and hope tomorrow is better.  Hugs!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

are you pmsing? I get a little moody around that time of month.

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Lol. I’m less than 3 weeks away from my wedding and the combination of stress from work, both families, the wedding, and the attempt to keep some semblance of a normal life has set me off. It’s a lot.

Whatever it is he did, if you take yourself about of the circumstances of today and immense stress of everything, this wouldn’t have been an issue. However, when you are trying to do the one thing that helps you relax and shutout the chaos, and even that doesn’t work out…you are likely to have a small meltdown.

Have a glass of wine ( or a bottle, possibly two). Watch some really crazy people (anything with Real Housewives in title works) on tv. Remind yourself that you aren’t a crazy person, and you have a wonderful man who loves you at even your worst, and it will all be okay.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

oh the UGLY cry.  We have all been there, I’m certain.  Sometimes you just need to let it all out!

Post # 10
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Helper bee

Been there, done that. I’m a teacher too and know how those horrible days are :/ 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Ya I’ve definitely had one for those before! Well, I have them way too often haha. Yesterday I threw one of our invitation envelopes across the room because I spelled someone’s name wrong… Lovely! Haha

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

sometimes when your skin is already raw from other things-stress, trouble at home/work- it makes every little thing feel that much more painful, because your emotions are exposed and raw. i understand.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Been there, it’s totally normal! Last week I was having an issue with a friend, PMSing, then had a customer at work threaten to ‘make my life hell’ because he didn’t pay off his loan. I held it together all day, then one of our blinds broke at home and I just lost it, like ugly crying. It took me forever to calm down.

It’s definitely a combination of everything building up. Hope the next day was better for you!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Been there done that haha! I think we all have, dont worry too much 🙂

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Um… yes.  Today.  When I realized the pharmacy took a credit card payment for my antibiotics and also charged it to my health reimbursment program card so I paid from them twice. 

 

It’ll probably happen again over something on a random day.

 

I keep maca (a supliment) around and try to remember to take it every day.  That seems to help.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

I had this really rough day several years ago.  Nothing major just a bunch of minor things.  I was so thankful that later that day I had plans to go swimming with a friend. I get home put on my brand new swimsuit and the metal clasp on the back just snaps.  I just bursted in tears.  I called her crying because I was so sad and I was an idiot thinking she would just diss me since I didn’t want to swim anymore.

Everyone has their own tactic to deal with it.  Just find whatever you can to take your mind off of it.  You’ll think about it when your more sane and far less emotional.

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