(Closed) Breaking up question

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
865 posts
Busy bee

time is the best closure i have found in my past relationships.

Post # 4
2765 posts
Sugar bee

Is he willing to stay away from your mutual friends for a while?

Post # 5
10367 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

In my past I fell hard for someone, and when we broke up, we were in the same small graduate program and had a ton of friends in common. The only peace I got was completely stepping away for a while. When I was finally over him, I started going back to the group events where I would run into him. Now we are friends – but you can’t be friends without the closure and distance first!

Post # 6
6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

My college Boyfriend or Best Friend also broke up with me b/c of his parents. I’m not Catholic, and they hated that – they would never accept anyone outside of their faith. At first I tried to fight it, but eventually realized any guy who went with his parents on that instead of me wasn’t worth fighting for. I hope you can reach into your heart and feel the same way. 

Post # 7
6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I believe that when you get married you and your Fiance become your immediate family and are each other’s first priority.

Now I know you guys weren’t at that stage yet but if he won’t fight for you even in this situation and fight for his parents to get to know you better I think you are better off.

Let your wounds heal and I am sure you will be able to be friends in time!

Post # 8
6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Oh, and also from experience – time heals all wounds. Try to avoid parties/gatherings where you know he will be there. You don’t want to show up at a party and see him with some other girl – no way, no how. And you need to totally cut him out for about a year before you can see him again. Good luck!

Post # 9
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

i agree with the others, it’s always best to just get him out of your life, other wise you won’t be able to move on. i’m sure your friends will understand if you don’t want to hang out with him anymore.

Post # 11
125 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

The best thing for your heart would be to get away from him.  You have to take care of your heart so you don’t end up making the healing process take longer.

Post # 12
1854 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I wish there was an easy way hun, but there’s no such thing when it comes to healing a heart. He decided that he would not stand up for your relationship; therefore I would ask hip to step out and let you be with your friends without him there.

Also, it wouldn’t be bad for you to start doing things on your own and meet new friends, people that won’t know him and the couple that you were. Time and complete separation will get you through this, but it won’t be easy..

I’ll think about you!

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