(Closed) Breaking up with a friend–please help! (VERY long post)

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 47
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5385 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I would suggest that you email her. Make sure to program her email to spam and block her on facebook.

Post # 48
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145 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Hi!!

I am so sorry you are dealing with this crazy girl! I am a hair stylist and it seems as though I’ve met a few Jane’s in my day. lol. Maybe this will help…

– Jane is USING YOU! Really think about that!

She is USING you because she knows you can’t/won’t stand up to her! She wants to feel superior and its easy for her because you let her. Confronting her or emailing her is only going to make her worse. I would block all contact from her as everyone has been suggesting… block her on facebook, block her emails and even call the phone company and have her number blocked. Realize that she is the type to walk through fire to get a hold of you so one day, she’ll probably slip through the cracks (aka a friends facebook account or something). Simply say: We are two different people and I don’t think we should be friends any longer. And be done with it. She already knows WHY! She may not say it… she may play dumb, she may be “loud Jane”… but Jane knows! She’s doing it all for attention! She knows she can hang around you and not have to battle for attention… she knows you’ll feel guilty and apologize – because she wants the attention! Stop giving her the attention and she’ll be gone!

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