(Closed) Breaking up with the old BFF *VENT*

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Ugh I’m so sorry!  I really hope she doesn’t move in with your sister because you don’t need a toxic person like that in your circle.  You are not being crazy, it isn’t worth it if she won’t even give the person that you love a chance because he liked you instead of her!

Post # 5
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Yes your sister does need to live alone with her husband and enjoy him!  I couldn’t imagine having a roommate!

Post # 6
Member
4024 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I should probably make an allias right now, but I’m not going to. My BEST friend and I had a falling out too, and for similar reasons. She doesn’t agree with me getting married and won’t be friends with me at all because of it. From my experience, its not worth it. If someone can’t be your friend and supportive no matter what, they aren’t worth your time and really isn’t your friend. She should be happy for you no matter what, and she seems to just bring you down. I think you are right in stopping this “friendship”.

Post # 7
Member
7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

yikes! if she and your sister aren’t even very close, why on EARTH would they ask her to move in with them!? red flag, red flag!

I’m sorry that people go crazy sometimes 🙁 it definitely doesn’t sound (to me) like you’re in the wrong here. It sounds like your friend is dealing with some major insecurities by lashing out. And that’s really hard!

Post # 9
Member
4567 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Ugh, what a terrible situation to be in! I’m so, so sorry. I’ve had to break up with friends before and it’s the hardest thing to do, especially if you have alot of history with them. But it sounds like she’s pretty toxic and not anyone you need to have around, so I think it’s probably for the best!

Post # 10
Member
1982 posts
Buzzing bee

I think you did the right thing here… she is obviously a bad egg, and you don’t need that drama while moving and wedding planning! Good luck and try hard to maintain contact with your sis and Brother-In-Law so they know it’s not them!!!

Post # 11
Member
6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Oh wow, the toxic friend! She sounds jealous of you and resentful that maybe you’ve spent less time with her as you started getting close to Fiance. And yes, your sister needs her space!! We try everything possible to keep people OUT of our apartment unless we invite them over for dinner or something specific. We need our alone time! People will always try to take advantage though..

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