(Closed) bridal attendant bailed

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
181 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I am so sorry girl! I would be crushed too. Is there any chance that there is something more going on with her? As horrible as this seems, it would have been worse if she had waited any longer to tell you. I believe that it is completely reasonable to take time to respond to the email. You will want to chose your words carefully. Unfortunately, this is one of those instances where you find out who your real friends are. Again, maybe there is more going on with her? So sorry 🙁

Post # 4
401 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am sorry this happen to you–I had aunt decline to be a brides maid because she said she didnt want to disappoint me and I honestly respect that more rather than her bailing last minute.  I would take as much time as you need to reply to that e-mail….To be honest when I reply to things like that too osoon I end up saying some real hurtful things so if I were you wait a bit and calm down. At the same time when you do e-mail her telll her your true feeling but in a respectful way!

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