(Closed) Bridal gown search never-ending…is it me?

posted 5 years ago in Dress
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Firstly, the dress search will certainly end because your wedding day will make it end! That’s the good news.

The bad news is, you have to stop looking for the perfect gown. There are many, many gorgeous gowns. The designers make sure of this, or else they wouldn’t be in business.  If you can accept the fact that it’s not gonna be possible to see every gown in the world by your wedding date, then you might be able to bring yourself down from the bridal fantasy of the perfect dress search.

Also, Randy on say yes to the dress says that you didn’t date every single guy in the world before finding the perfect one, so let it be the same for the dress. I hate to say this, but with 6 billion on the planet, you probably don’t have the perfect guy. Now, I’m sure you’ll come back with saying, but he’s this and that, and it’s what I want in a man. Okay, let that be so for the dress, too. Look positively at the dresses and let them be “good enough.”

I have a problem with dress regret also, but I keep telling myself the reasons I chose my dress. With anything you choose, be it a house, a car, a job, it’s not gonna be “the perfect,” but it will be good enough.

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