(Closed) Bridal Meltdown…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2947 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012


It’s easy to say that things will work out by your wedding day, but I know that’s hard to envision now. At least if your bachelorette party gets moved, the friends and family that cancelled might be able to make it then?

Would your Fiance at least consider a loan through your parents?? That way, it’s still technically purchased by the two of you if you pay them back. If he’s too proud for even that..well. :/ I wouldn’t sacrifice your plans in order to get your home faster if you feel that you will regret missing out on the things you gave up. On the flipside, the end result is marriage no matter what kind of party you have.

Maybe in the morning (later morning ;p ) things will calm down and you guys can talk again.

EDIT: Wow, you said 1:45 and it’s 3:57 for me now. Bedtime methinks. Try to get some rest! Tomorrow is a brand new day. πŸ™‚

Post # 4
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I am so sorry you are going through all of this, but it is totally normal. I suggest you take a couple weeks off completely away from anything wedding. It will really help to clear your head and refresh you. I know you have probably already been told this, but you still have some time and everything will come together. I promise πŸ™‚ And I think you need a hug, so here are some {{{hugs}}}

Post # 5
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Scream and let it out and then calm yourself down.  Sometimes all we really need is to vent and get it out of our systems.  Allow yourself to feel what you need to feel  – but not for too long and then, just take a deep breath and get back to wedding planning.  I hope things certainly do get better for you.  If it’s any consolation, despite the chaos, your wedding will come together.  Take it easy πŸ™‚

Post # 6
6065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

It’s good you are venting and getting it all out of your system.
I’m sure these kind of moments are inevitable during the stressful process of planning such a big event that means so much to you!

I’m so sorry you are feeling this way, but if you give yourself some time to step back, breathe, re-group…you will feel totally differently in a few days!


Post # 9
5296 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

@pengoala:That’s awesome – just take it one thing at a time πŸ™‚ And the loan idea is great, I think – in 20 years neither of you should care where the last $5k for the down payment came from, you should be enjoying the wonderful life and memories that you’ve created there!

Post # 10
3788 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011


It’ll come together. I have had sooooo many of those moments along the way so far, and I expect it’s going to get worse as the big  day gets closer. One step at a time. And after you’re married and hanging your wedding pics in your first home, it’ll all be worth it!

Post # 11
1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@pengoala: Woo, that’s a great update.

And once you’re over this hump, hopefully things will be smooth sailing.

Post # 12
68 posts
Worker bee

@pengoala: I’m so sorry about what’s going on.  You will figure it all out and your wedding day will be beautiful.  On a side note, maybe your fiance would consider taking the loan from your parents if they call it wedding money instead of house money. Then you can put your wedding money toward the house.

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