(Closed) Bridal party

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Am I wrong for not having Melissa in the bridal party?

    Yes, you are wrong you should have her in the wedding

    No, she didn't have you in hers so whats the difference?

  • Post # 2
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I don’t think it matters whether you were in her party or not, you still get to choose who you want.

    It’s immature of her to be complaining that she’s not in your party.

    Post # 3
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    437 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    yeah it’s immature! Also i think if she didn’t have you she has no right to be annoyed you aren’t having her! i kind of think that it’s tit for tat with this kind of thing, that’s just me though! 

    Post # 4
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

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    nina.ashton.3:  Just to clarify you’re not having her in your wedding becasue you have better, closer relationships with other women who you’ve asked to stand up with you, and not because she didn’t ask you to be in her wedding right?

    You bridal party is your decision. I have several friends and my SIL and Future SIL whose weddings I was/will be in and chose not to have them as my bridesmaids as to keep our bridal party small. I think as long as you’re reason for not having her is more than she simply didn’t have you in her’s then that’s fine and she’s overreacting.

    Post # 6
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I agree that it doesn’t even matter if you were in her wedding or not, and it is your choice who is in your wedding anyway, period. She needs to grow up.

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