- 4 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
So, ok a once dear friend i have had since I was 7 (20 years) has always been someone I thought I wanted in my wedding party
however, her behavior as of late leaves me sickened to the point i almost don’t even water at my wedding let alone part of it.
She is dating a friend of hers for over 15 years husband. Her friend dated that man 10 years b4 they got married, and pretty much have been married a little over 2 years. Its so wrong to me
She always had a thing for stealing girls bfs in highschool (its something ppl tolorated in school when its girls dating a guy for a month) she has never gone after one of my bfs that i know but i none of my bfs have ever liked how close we wer and seemed to never want to hang out with her (now i wonder if she made passes at them)
So here is the thing, I am very moral. I can’t stand people who don’t respect relationships and marriage even more so I don’t really believe in divroce the only time i think its ok is if a man is abusing you or cheating on you other wise you should work it out.
Her stealing her friends husband and distroying their marriage causing them to file for divorce has me feeling like i dont want her in my wedding she does not respect marriage not only is that just horrible it feels like bad vibes … plus i sorta don’t evne know fi i wanna be her friend if she can do that to someone
its just conflicting since we have been friends since child hood driffed the past 10 years but i always sawher there in my mind
would you have her in your wedding? if no would you have her at it even or no