(Closed) Bridal Party Dance

posted 8 years ago in Reception
  • poll: Would you have a problem dancing with a groomsman instead of your SO?
    Yes, I'd refuse to do it. : (0 votes)
    I wouldn't like it, but I'd suck it up for a few minutes. : (7 votes)
    24 %
    I wouldn't mind at all. : (22 votes)
    76 %
    Other : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    738 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I personally wouldn’t be that uncomfortable because I would have had a few drinks in me by the point. But I can see how some people find it uncomfortable. Dancing is not everyone’s cup of tea, you know? I’m not having a bridal party dance.

    Post # 4
    552 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I’m not doing that, but at my MOH’s wedding when I was a Bridesmaid or Best Man, the whole bridal party joined towards the end of her first dance song w/ her husband.  I didn’t mind.

    Post # 5
    2006 posts
    Buzzing bee

    We did it at my sister’s wedding and I didn’t mind at all, even with my (now ex) boyfriend there watching. It was just a basic slow dance that lasted all of 3 minutes with minimal touching besides holding hands. 

    I guess if you had religious convictions about touching another man I could see how it would be uncomfortable. Otherwise I say get over it and just dance 😛

    Post # 6
    2588 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    I was in that situation once…and I didn’t mind at all.

    Post # 7
    505 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    I dont have an issue with it…what’s the harm?  Personally I don’t get it.  It’s just all for fun.  I don’t get how there are girls/woman out there that believe that once you get married you can no longer have any contact with men (include looking at) and vice versa.  Seriously, its not like dancing with a groomsman is going to end in an orgy!!  

    Besides you can always do the 6th grade dance arms on shoulders and rock from foot to foot.  

    Post # 8
    3667 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    I’d be fine with it, since getting my SO to dance at all is pretty much impossible!

    Post # 9
    2362 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010 - New York Botanical Garden

    I would be uncomfortable if I didn’t know my groomsman counterpart or if we weren’t friends, and I’m pretty sure Mr. HC would care too – but neither he nor I would care if he were a good friend.

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