(Closed) Bridal Party Drama Rama, ftw?

posted 10 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2050 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Let them fight to the death like this scene from Star Trek?:

Seriously, I’d sit down with both of them individually and request that they act more respectfully regarding their support of YOU and YOUR wedding day. This is an HONOR, not a frickin’ popularity contest. See if you and Miss Thang #1 can resolve your differences. If so, and she can promise to adhere to all the things you see fit for a Maid/Matron of Honor, she shall remain Maid/Matron of Honor, in which case, Miss Thang #2 will need to be schooled in the art of eating some humble pie for her assumption of being the Maid/Matron of Honor replacement. If Miss Thang #1 continues to give you grief, let her go, and go through the formality of asking Miss Thang #2, that is, only if she can adhere to the Maid/Matron of Honor duties you request. If either of them can’t play nice, you take your bouncy ball and go elsewhere. They don’t have to be in the bridal party or invited to the wedding at all if it brings them that much grief, and you certainly don’t need any more grief either. Good luck!

Post # 4
91 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I completely agree with cornflakegirl. Both these girls need to respect the fact that it’s your wedding day! You have the right to chose who seems fit and who YOU want to be your MOH–both of them need to stop causing a cat fight and then using it against you. If they can’t play nice and act like respectful friends, then out the door they BOTH go!

Let us know how it works out! Good luck with everything!

Post # 7
1136 posts
Bumble bee

I ditched my Maid/Matron of Honor because of the shady people she was hanging out with. 

I found a new one.

ex moh’s loss not mine 

Post # 8
10354 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m so not surprised that drama like this follows you around. I’m sure you’ll end up having both of them and then feeding off of the attention/drama.

Post # 9
3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@Joctradamus: watch the move BRIDESMAIDS…what you just described is the plot

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