(Closed) Bridal Party Drama

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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570 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Tell her that you’ve already arranged the tables and that the caterer has the final count, sorry, hopefully he can go without seeing her for a day. If she flips out, she’ll just look silly. Would you be totally devastated if she didn’t come to the wedding? Doesn’t sound like she’s adding much to the bridal party other than drama…

Post # 4
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341 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MrsPeachMartini:  +1

She should know better, and if they have only been dating a week or so, he may not be around much longer. (that is such a new relationship!)  Then youw ill have some weirdo in all of your photos..

If she does not understand why he can not come she is not a very good friend to you anyways =/

Post # 5
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107 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Hearthstone Country Club

@nhm8:  I know how you feel. Just ask her in a very polite way and then explain to her how you really feel. If she freaks out, don’t retaliate, wait until after the wedding. Don’t let her ruin your big day! 

Post # 6
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107 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Hearthstone Country Club

@MrsPeachMartini:  I totally agree! She’s a hater… kick that frienemie to the curb once this all over. And if she doesn’t show up! The show must go on 🙂 

Post # 7
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374 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@MrsPeachMartini:  Agreed! Try to talk to her now rather then later so she wont super flipped out and say you never told her.

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