(Closed) Bridal party is one big dramatic Mess! (long)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
255 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Then everybody involved in this hot mess needs to grow up! Two things need to happen here…

1.) You need to tell your Fiance that having this friend in your party is a deal breaker OR you need to come to grips with the fact he will be involved.

2.) You need to tell your Fiance that his friend is not allowed to stay in the same location as your bridal party OR you need to tell your friend to deal with him being there.

Seriously… a wedding is not the time or place to relive what it was like being in highschool!

Post # 5
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

It bothers me that you and your Fiance are at odds over other people’s drama. You should sit down and talk about the best option for everybody instead of taking the side your respective friends. 

Post # 7
7719 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

In your case, all the girls and guys at one house sounds like a drama waiting to happen. I think one group (probably the guys) should all stay somewhere else. Renting a hotel room for them for a couple of nights (whatever it is) seems to be money well spent. That way the GMs and BMs only need to be near each other during the wedding itself.

I think you need to definitely write off the new best man – having your man there for the birth is so important, it’s unfair to expect him to travel interstate, even within a couple of weeks of the due date.

Personally I agree with your fiance about bringing the old best man back – if they stay in another house you don’t really need to interact with him either. From what you say, it was just one (admittedly large) argument, not a long history of rudeness to you.

Post # 8
53 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@paula1248:  yeah like Paula said spliting it to two groups is probabbly the best compromise, if you let them stay in one hotel the Bridesmaid or Best Man will be unhappy and if you let him be alone at a different hotel he will probabbly be unhappy, both could probablly led to more drama…

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