(Closed) Bridal party names must be on program?

posted 8 years ago in Paper
  • poll: Do the names of the bridal party HAVE to be on the program
    Yes absolutely! : (42 votes)
    86 %
    No it doesnt matter : (7 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2640 posts
    Sugar bee

    I said yes, because I just think it’s a nice gesture. 

    If the program is given before the ceremony, outlining the events during the ceremony, I’d say yes put the names in there.  The Bridal Party is afterall, part of the ceremony.  And some guests might enjoy knowing who they are looking at. Sometimes couples put in their programs how they know the attendants (ie. sister of the bride, or high school friend).  I have a hard time trying to think of a compelling reason why not to put their names on the program if you are making one.  If you don’t, it might possibly make you look awkward.

    If you want to put something like a simple card, at the table settings stating the timeline of when cocktail hour, dinner, and dancing will start, then I don’t think the names of the Bridal Party need to go on it.

    Post # 4
    Hostess
    16194 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    I personally think it’s pretty important to have the Bridal Party names in the program. They are part of the ceremony, and their positions as bridal party members are meant to honor them.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1569 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 1996

    The program is the only place where your bridal party receives recognition before all your other guests for the role they’ve (presumably) played in contributing toward your wedding day, whether through helping with planning or simply paying for their dresses and showing up supportively (not a small undertaking in itself sometimes). It’s a nice way to honor them for being there for you. I would have felt bad if my bridal party didn’t have their names written somewhere so that the guests would know who they were – plus, some guests may be curious about how the bridal party relates to you and your fiance (sister of the bride, friend of the groom, etc). Without their names in the program, folks are just left to wonder who the heck all those people at the front of the church are.

    Post # 7
    Member
    739 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2009

    Could you possibly put it on the back side or do you already have something planned for the back.  I personally enjoy reading the bridal party section when I’m at weddings.  I particularly like it when they mention their relationship – sister, cousin, roomate, friend, etc.

    Post # 8
    Member
    1816 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2017

    @bells: our program is also one page, but it is double-sided.  We have the BP’s names and ours parents’/grandparents’ names on the back.

    Post # 9
    Member
    9053 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I skipped programs all together, but if I had done them I definitely would have put our wedding party’s names in them.

    Post # 10
    Member
    232 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I am including our bridal party names in our program. Don’t want them to feel left out.

    Post # 11
    Member
    245 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I said yes b/c that’s usually the only part I actually do read!

    Post # 12
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    1506 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Wow, I’m really suprised so many of you said yes. I was planning on doing program fans. We’re having a Greek Orthodox ceremony, and my family is Roman Catholic, so I have all of the parts of the ceremony explained on one side, and I have our monogram and date on the other. Maybe I should reconsider and ditch the monogram for a listing of the BP?

    Post # 13
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    13096 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I agree with the PPs.  It’s a nice place to honor and recognize your wedding party.

    @MrsMcGyro: Personally, I would.

    Post # 14
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    2111 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I think it’s nice to have them. Plus as a guest, I like to know who they are and what their relationship to the bride and groom is.

    Post # 15
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    1602 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I know there’s been a lot of answers, but I agree with putting them on. They’re giving up of their time and money, and they deserve to be recognized.

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