- 6 years ago
I am the Maid of Honor for my sister’s wedding. The jist of the situation is that when we were younger my sister and I did not get a long much at all. As we’ve grown up though we’ve become closer and I consider her to be my best friend, which I thought I would never say. She asked me to be her Maid/Matron of Honor over her best friend 15 years and now it has become an issue within the bridal party. She has 5 total bridesmaids and three of them were friends of hers throughout school. The other two are myself and the woman who introduced my sister and her fiancee. The problem is the snarky comments we(myself and the other bridesmaid) receive whenever the bridal party gets together. I asked numerous times for help planning the bridal shower and received no response/help from these girls until the week of. It’s becoming a big problem and I know that I cannot go to my sister for help. What do I do? I want to confront all the girls and remind them that this is for my sister and that we need to put our differences aside but I also don’t want to cause an even bigger issue. Any help/advice would be appreciated.