(Closed) Bridal Party SO's… Do I invite them?

posted 5 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

Do you mean whom do you invite to the shower? That’s completely up to you and the host. Usually, if you have more than about 30 people to invite to a shower, you have more than one shower or it can get a little crazy.

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@redness82:  I would stick with your nearest and dearest friends and close family. If you are not close friends with the groomsmen’s wives and they would only be invited because of that status, I would leave them off the list.

As a couple they are already likely going to be purchasing a wedding gift for you. A shower gift would be an imposition if you are not close.

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@redness82:  The whole point of a shower is to bring gifts.

I have never been invited to a bachelorette when my Darling Husband was in the wedding party  because he was close to the groom and I was not close to the bride.

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