(Closed) Bridal Party Trouble!!!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
23589 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@jennabug:  I wonder if you just need to sit down and have a good chat with this bridesmaid about where things are going with your friendship – I feel like one way or another, you’ll get clarification and it will weigh less heavily on you looking forward.  Good luck!

Post # 4
207 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

i would try to get ppl in the wedding that you actually speak too, Im kinda in the same spot, but it’s my 2nd cousin , we dont speak but i just wanted a family memeber in my wedding… but if the almost ex girlfriend is an ex, i wont have her in the wedding , bc you will never see or speak to her again, Your wedding should be full of people that wish you the best and are in your life

Post # 5
58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

My SIL had a friend in her wedding that she had a falling out with right after the wedding. She doesn’t really care that shes in all of the pictures. My SIL is also CRAZY so thats probably a bad example.

I don’t know if I’d have someone in my wedding party that I’m not really close to anymore. You should definitely have a talk with the old co-worker. If you both no the friendship is on its last leg she may not be offended at not being in your wedding party. I don’t know how to address the other friend. Was she your friend before she started dating your brother?

Post # 6
4766 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

regarding work friend- call her up and plan a catch up date.  If you were close before just becasue you don’t work together does not mean you still can’t be close.

As for bro’s g/f – Is she in Bridal Party solely cause she is bro’s g/f? If you are not her friend and won’t continue the relationship once they don’t live together, then by all means tell her that becasue of the circumstances you don’t feel right having her in your Bridal Party. 

Post # 7
56 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

i think it would be great to have a chat with all of your girls.

Talk with them before they buy dresses!!!!


Post # 8
8469 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Definitely talk to them.  Like you said, the last thing you want to do is look at pictures years down the road and be like, “I don’t even know that girl anymore.”

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