- 7 years ago
- Wedding: February 2012
So, I am getting married in Hawaii, and have only invited an intimate handful of my family to attend.
My mother and grandmother (who are both coming to Hawaii) are super keen on throwing me a bridal shower before the wedding and plan on inviting my family and friends over, many of whom are not invited to the wedding. My mom says I shouldn’t feel awkward and that I am not asking for anything, but I think most people go to a bridal shower thinking that they are expected (or thing it’s in good form) to bring a gift. Those that are going to Hawaii, the cost in itself is enough of a gift for them to come, so I am not sure what to do. Should I let my Mom and Grandma do it or should I call the shower off? Not sure what to do!