(Closed) Bridal Shower Announcement

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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286 posts
Helper bee

Yeah, I think that would have bothered me just a little. Did you talk to your Fiance about it? What did he think? I think that is something that has to be taken care of because you do have to deal with them in the future. Also, you want to make sure they do not do anything to ruin your special day.

Post # 5
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6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

That would have made me angry as well. Even if I DID get along with the Future Sister-In-Law, I would have been upset that they couldn’t just let it be my moment.

Unfortunately I don’t think there’s anything you can do or say really. Just make sure the DJ or bandleader doesn’t give them the mic so they can’t make any ‘pregnancy’ announcements at your wedding!

Post # 6
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: August 2008

I hate this kind of crap! We had to deal with a similar situation, and it got completely out of hand. Now, none of us speak to each other. Did you know that you can’t help the way you feel? If we could control our feelings, life would be so much easier! So acknowledge your feelings, own them, explore what makes you feel that way, and figure out what you need to do to make things feel right to you. Communication is huge, and so is knowing that you stood up for yourself. If they don’t like what you come up with, then they probably aren’t thinking about what’s best for you. Your happiness comes first! 

Post # 7
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2362 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - New York Botanical Garden

that would definitely bother me.  however, I don’t think there is anything that you can say to them right now…that being said, I would tell your fiance about what happened and your concern, and make sure that he makes it clear to his family that this wedding is about you guys – he needs to stand up to his family for you!  (I didn’t mean to make that sound like I assumed he wasn’t already standing up for you, just that he should be the one to do this at this point – oy internet talking!)

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