- 5 years ago
I don’t want to sound ungreatful but my shower is in 6 days and the whole process is making me feel really unloved and lonely. I am the last one of my group of friends to get married, but the first in my family… Between my family not being organized (and half spread around the country) and my friends feeling like they could care less, I am at the point where I just want to cancel the whole dang thing.
My stepmom is throwing it, and I know it would crush her, but I’ve had to be the one to do everything because she stinks at planning anything in advanced. To the point where the invites for the shower were done completely by my fiance and I, and mailed. At this point only two people have RSVP’d, one of whom is FMIL’s friend I don’t even know, and one person has bought a gift. I have gone to every one of our friends bridal showers, bachelorettes, and weddings, and been there for them 100% helping plan…come to my wedding and nothing. Needless to say Im hurt, frustrated, and don’t even want a shower at all at this point.
Has anyone else had an experience like this? Should I cancel the whole thing and just have a spa day or something with my mom, sister, and one Bridesmaid or Best Man that rsvp’d?