(Closed) bridal shower confusion

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yup! I’d tell her thanks, but no thanks!

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

JenGirl:  +1 Agree.

I would decline, it’s super rude to have a bridal shower and not invite them to the wedding. Maybe just have a party with friends after?

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Mayes86:  It’s rude to invite anyone to a shower that you don’t plan to invite to the wedding. So in your case, no, you should not have a shower. I’d tell her you appreciate her kind offer but would prefer not to have one. 🙂

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Mayes86: Doesn’t matter…it’s still a no-no.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

very rude. don’t accept.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Definitely not.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Mayes86:  Definitely no bridal shower – your feelings are spot on.

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