Bridal shower doesnt make sense to have- small wedding?

posted 8 months ago in Parties
Post # 2
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Bumble Beekeeper

Why do you think your mom and moh would feel uncomfortable being outnumbered by your husband’s family membesr? Your moh offered; she must know the dynamic. If you want a shower, I’d take her up on it – it sounds like it could be a nice, intimate affair, which I personally would far prefer to a huge shower with dozens of people. But if you don’t think it sounds like a good time then just graciously decline.

Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

Nothing to feel bummed about.  That sounds doable and fun!

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2008

Why not just have a big party the night before the wedding with all thr groomsmen and bridesmaids? Go out drinking or out to dinner or something easy and low key.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

We had 55 guests at our wedding, and I had a bridal shower.  It actually ended up being 14 people because more of my aunts drove for it than I thought would.   It was really fun, and I’m glad I had one and didn’t feel like I missed out.  I think you should do it!

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