(Closed) Bridal Shower Etiquette – Who's Throwing the Party?!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
956 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@kms2122:  You’re welcome.

Post # 18
1077 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Greenbrier Country Club

As I’m reading what you wrote, a certain friends name pops into my head and my blood starts to boil. I definitely can relate, but wish I couldn’t. I would be livid (just because I’m tired of these situations) if she asked you to contribute at this point.
My instant reaction is too late on their part. If they wanted you to host, they should let you host. It is bad form to have all the fun planning and then tack the bill onto someone else. Nope it wouldn’t fly with me.
So, I would NOT send a message, and if she did ask for me to help finance and host, I would decline on the count that I was ill prepared to do so because of last minute notification.
Make sure she knows it is thier fault and your perfect.

Ok. That’s my bitter side. My logical side that wants the best for all parties involved, would say, definitely get clarity ASAP. Ha.

Keep us updated.


Post # 19
173 posts
Blushing bee

@kms2122:  Yes, that would be wonderful!!! Thank you so much!

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