posted 10 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
275 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I’m in somewhat the same situation, but some of them have become my friends.

I plan on inviting the wives/gf’s of the groomsmen and that’s it.  When the others got married, I was only invited when my Fiance was a groomsmen. 

It’s really your decision.


Post # 4
3 posts

I have a similar situation…all of my fiance’s best friends are married.  I’ve met all the wives, but I’m not friends with all of them.  I started by asking my fiance what he thought.  If he said his friends would feel weird or offended if their wives weren’t invited to the shower then I would have invited them all.  He said it was up to me.  So, I’m inviting the girls that I’m friends with because I would think it was weird if I got invited to a shower if I’ve never hung out with the bride.  In the end, I think the best answer is do what you’re most comfortable with.

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