- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
I am getting married in June and my Maid/Matron of Honor is getting married in September (fun, right??). I am also her Maid/Matron of Honor. She lives 2 hours away in Indianapolis, IN. I live in Cincinnati, OH. All but two of her bridesmaids (there are 7 of us total) live in Indianapolis as well.
I am looking into venues to have her bridal shower. There are a few restaurants that I have in mind that I know she really enjoys. Would it be bad etiquette to ask other bridesmaids to chip in money to help with the reservation? Or am I supposed to do it all on my own? She had my bridal shower in Indianapolis at one of my bridesmaids house (all my bridesmaids live in Indianapolis, too) but there were only about 11 people who came so it was smaller. I am having a seperate shower in Cincinnati for all my local friends. I am having a small destination wedding whereas she is having a large catholic wedding so our weddings couldn’t be more opposite. lol.
Anyways, please let me know if this would be acceptable. I don’t want to offend anyone by asking for help. I’ve never been the Maid/Matron of Honor before. lol.