Post # 1
Morning, Bees –
So I got invited to FI’s co-workers bridal shower next weekend. I can’t make it since my friend is visiting from CA.
I am going to buy her a gift but I hardly ever see her. Would it be in poor taste to give the gift to Fiance and have him give it to her at work? I feel bad for Fiance cause he takes the bus to work and has to walk a small way to work. What should i do? Should I give it to Fiance to give it to her or should I wait until I see her next?
Her wedding is in July.
Post # 3
There were a lot of people that gave me gifts but did not attend my bridal shower. They gave all their gifts to the host of the shower. Not sure if thats proper etiquette or what but thats just what they did.
Post # 4
Can you just pick something off her registry and have it shipped directly to her?
Post # 5
I don’t think it’d be in poor taste at all to send the gift to work with your Fiance. You can write on the card that you are sorry that you weren’t able to make it. I’m sure she will understand.
Post # 6
I think it’s sweet of you to send a gift when you can’t make it; I can’t imagine her being upset that you sent it with your Fiance :).
Post # 7
I’d ship it to her. I recieved a wedding present at work and then I had to haul the toaster with me all day. (I rode my bike to work). The entire time I kept thinking, “Why didn’t she just ship it! It’s Free shipping!!!”
Post # 8
Thanks bees! I appreciate your responses!