(Closed) Bridal Shower Guestlist Question

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1736 posts
Bumble bee

I’d give her a list of your side of the family and close friends – and then ask her if she needs any help in compiling the list for her side. Easy as that!

Post # 4
2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I would include the whole list and just put a note or verbally tell her, “I included everyone from your side. If you want to make any tweaks to this list, that is fine!”

My intent for anyone throwing me a party is to make it as EASY as possible. On the bachelorette party list, I even included Maid/Matron of Honor (who is throwing it) and myself. Just so she had the total count easily. Plus, there’s a (small) risk she could feel like you were leaving her side out, even though you were just planning on having her add it.

I see no downsides to including it and possible downsides to not including it.

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