(Closed) Bridal Shower HELP!

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

So long as someone else is throwing it for you (you can’t throw your own shower) and all the people invited to the shower are invited to the wedding, I think you’re fine. If they can’t make it after they’ve been invited that’s their issue.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

@JenGirl:  +1  The bride should not plan her own bridal shower.  Now, if your TX friends just want to have a get-together (and “shower” you with gifts) for you before you leave for CA, that’s fine.  

Post # 5
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117 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Although you are not planning your shower, the bride does have input of the guest list.  I think only local people should be invited.

Inviting people from TX to the wedding in CA is OK, inviting them to the shower is not OK.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@JenGirl:  +1, if they can’t attend I would assume they’d still want to do something to celebrate with you, OP!

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