(Closed) Bridal Shower Help!!

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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46590 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Although some people post that no one should be invited to a shower who is not invited to the wedding,there are obviously many exceptions documented in other posts.

It is not unusual where I live for neighbours, work colleagues, book or other club members, church members and yes, even family and friends who are not invited to the wedding to be invited to a shower.

Post # 4
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3267 posts
Sugar bee

You could also thank her for her offer, but let her know that you aren’t comfortable with a shower, since you won’t be inviting those ladies to the wedding.  But that you would love a bridal luncheon or something that doesn’t have the stigma of gifts attached.

Then you get to party with your loved ones, and it’s not a gift giving event.

Post # 6
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7 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2013

only people invited to the wedding should be invited to the shower.  Its like saying, hey you are good enough to bring me a gift but not good enough to celebrate with me at my actual wedding.  I would side eye the heck out of you if I was invited to a shower and not the wedding. 

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