(Closed) Bridal shower hostess thank you etiquette??

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
339 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

At my shower, once is was pretty much wrapped up, I took some time to thank everyone for coming and gave a special thanks to the people that organized/decorated.

Then, after the shower (a few days after), I gave hostess gifts to the organizers. 

I think you should thank everyone with special attention given to your 3 hostesses with a little speech.  Then give them your gifts at the end of the shower, maybe not present them to them in front of everyone, though. 

Post # 5
220 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I had my shower a few weeks ago, and I did the same.  After everything was all said and done I gave a little speech thanking everyone for coming and one for each of the hostesses for my shower.  I gave them their gifts after the shower had ended ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
529 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I actually gave my hostess gift to my Maid/Matron of Honor before the shower started, haha.  Maybe that wasn’t the best way to do it.

She (now the bride) gave me a thank you gift the week after the shower, which was a really sweet surprise for me, and probably better etiquette to thank someone after-the-fact.  ๐Ÿ˜›

Post # 7
2066 posts
Buzzing bee

Before I opened presents and my showers, I’ve thanked everyone for coming and thanked the hostesses for hosting.  I also got the hostesses thank you gifts and wrote them a thank you note for hosting the shower. 

Obviously I sent them a thank you note after the shower too.

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