Post # 1
My Mom is hosting my Bridal shower at her friends house. To me, they are the main hosts.
My Mom has a lot of helpers. Some major helpers (financially) and some minor helpers (little things).
Do I give my hosts gifts only or helpers as well?
Post # 3
At a minimum, write cards for everyone.
How much work are the “helpers” doing? Picking up flowers from the shop, making punch, that type of thing? I would just write thank you cards for that, myself.
Post # 4
@pigzfly: Oh yes definitely minimum, a card for everyone.
I was thinking for the more significant contributors of doing one of those clever bath sets.
For those other helpers with duties such as bringing the sweet bread, a card.