(Closed) Bridal Shower Invite…Do or Don’t?

posted 10 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
6659 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I personally wouldn’t invite her to the shower. And if it’s been that toxic between you two to the point of telling her you’ll never be friends again I would leave her name off the invitation. If she’s already been kicked out of the wedding party I dont’ think it should come as a shock.

Post # 4
3709 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

You may have to invite her to the wedding b/c of her husband…but there is no reason to have to deal with that during your shower.

Post # 5
5886 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I think in this case you have a special reason not to invite her to the shower.  The other girlfriends/fiances/wives that you’re inviting haven’t been talking trash behind your back and you haven’t had a falling out with them, right?  So it makes sense to exclude her.  Plus, she’s probably going to talk s*it on you whether you invite her or not, so may as well save yourself having to be fake nice to her.

Post # 6
1981 posts
Buzzing bee

Agreed with cbgg… she’s gonna be throwing down some smack whether you invite her or not. The difference is, would you rather it be behind your back, or making all your guests awkward at the shower?

I think that should answer the question!

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