- 10 years ago
- Wedding: August 2009
Should i send this person and invite to the Bridal Shower or not? Read on….
I had a BFF that I’ve known for 13 years now….her and her husband hooked me and my fiance up. She was a Bridesmaid or Best Man until she became a toxic friend….the night we got engaged she said “good…call you tomorrow to chat” – and then never called me!! We ran into each other @ a dinner for a mutual friend and still didn’t acknowledge our engagement (some BFF!!). I, stupidly, still asked her to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man but she was obviously uninterested in anything that had to do w/ the wedding – I do understand people have lives, but still at least pretend to be happy for a friend!!
Anyways, to make a long story short we had several falling outs since she would constantly bash on people, had a negative attitude, and was talking trash behind by back and would constantly make plans and never show up – yet had time to update her FB page w/ her most up-to-date activities! She is no longer a bridesmaid, especially after I told her that we will never be friends again (we’ve had too many falling outs), merely acquintances.
I don’t even want to invite her to the wedding – she is someone who is so shallow and superficial she will talk sh*t about anything and everything! I don’t want to worry about her bashing everything while I enjoy my day. However, her husband is good friends w/ my fiance so I have to invite her – however, it did cross my mind to leave her name of the invite and only invite him (but I was told that was rude). So my question is…..Since she is invited to the wedding, and I am inviting all of my fience’s friend’s wives/GF/fiance’s to the shower….do I still have to invite her? If she isn’t invited, she will find out and cause more drama.