(Closed) Bridal shower invites before or after wedding invites?

posted 11 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3342 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I would do wedding invitations and then shower invites.

Post # 4
400 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Bump, i have the same question.


Post # 5
806 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Doesn’t matter, IMO.  Sometimes the timing of the shower makes it hard or impossible for wedding invites to go out first.  (Like if your shower is 3+ months before the wedding).

Just make sure anyone you invite to the shower also gets a wedding invite when you send those.

Post # 6
1756 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Ours went out within a few weeks of each other, and the shower invites were first. My shower/bachelorette is actually next weekend (!!!!!) and the wedding isn’t until September, so I would have been sending out the wedding invites really early to beat the shower invites.

Honestly, I don’t think the timing matters that much, as long as everyone invited to the shower is also invited to the wedding.

Post # 8
1046 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

It really just depends on when the events are occuring. Since wedding invitations only go out a couple of months before the wedding, it’s quite common that the shower invites would go out first.

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