(Closed) Bridal Shower invites before wedding invites?

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I don’t think it matters, my MOH sent out my shower invites before our actual invites went out and I’ve seen other couples do this as well.

Post # 4
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1927 posts
Buzzing bee

My shower invites went out before the wedding invites.  Your MOH should send them whenever is appropriate based on the date of the shower.

Post # 5
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1523 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I don’t think it matters. I have already had two bridal showers thrown for me and my wedding invitations are being sent out at the end of June.

 

Post # 6
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2379 posts
Buzzing bee

I think it is perfectly fine to send the wedding invites whenever you originally planned and not change the schedule based on the shower. You sent the STDs so people know when the wedding is. 

Post # 7
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1732 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Doesn’t matter!  Invites for both of my showers will go out before wedding invites.

Post # 8
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2532 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

We just sent out our wedding invitations (and just received them) last week. My bridal shower was almost a month ago! I was in the process of designing the invitations but hadnt received them yet so I wouldnt worry about it!!!

Post # 9
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837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

You will have some people (generally older generations) complain, but really it’s fine etiquette-wise.  You don’t want to send your wedding invites out too early anyway!

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