- 8 years ago
So, my fiance has a neice, who will be 3, at the time of my shower. I originally was going to invite her with her mother but I have talked to my bridesmaids and mom and they think it’s not a place for a toddler.
She is the only toddler that would have been invited but I really don’t want her there. She’ll be at the wedding and I think that’s enough. Her mother (my future sister in law through marriage..fiances brothers wife) lashed out at me a couple of years ago and said things like “girlfriends come and go, remember that,” among a lot of other hurtful things….just because she was jealous of my relatonship with my fiances sister. This is also why I don’t want her daughter there- I’ve never forgiven her.
I’m sure she will be annoyed but I really don’t think it’s the right place for a toddler. I was told it’s at a nice place. Anyone else in this situation?