Post # 1
My future sisters in law have offered to throw me a shower! I can’t decide between a regular bridal shower or a lingerie shower. My fiance’s childhood church is already throwing my a bridal shower in another city.
Any advise from your personal experiences? I think lingerie showers are more fun but maybe it would be better to have a smaller one at the bachelorette party/weekend so it’s not awkward?
Post # 2
Sorry- what is a lingerie shower? Lol
Post # 3
Bridal shower… but your own panties
Post # 4
I threw my sister a lingerie shower at her bachelorette party. She had a small shower with just family earlier that day, so this was a nice way for her friends to give her something fun.
Post # 5
I’m down for a lingerie shower cause under garments are fuckin expensive.
Post # 6
- Wedding: July 2022 - Maui
we had lingerie for my bachelorette party, i had to guess who gave me what, that was fun but for the bridal shower, i liked tradition
Post # 7
Bridal shower. I am not a prude by any means, but I sincerely have no desire picking out sex clothes for my family or friends, nor watch as someone opens a bunch of it from other people. There are some things that are not group events. Buy your own lingerie.
Post # 8
- Wedding: June 2018 - Tizer Gardens/Carroll College
I’m overweight, and a lingerie party would be so awkward. One of my friends has volunteered to throw me a bridal shower and wants to know if I want to do lingerie or whatnot, and I’m just like, can’t we just do a wine party and not really have it be a “shower” per se? Gift me with Wine that would be PERFECT! So yeah, no offer of advice there, but I hear you!
Post # 9
amen. I’ve been cruising eBay for cheap white lacey things
Post # 10
I assume if your FSILs are throwing it, the shower would likely include people like your FI’s mother, grandmother, aunts…. those people do not need to see what you’re gonna be sporting before their dear relative bangs you. Leave the lingerie shower for when it’s only your friends.
Post # 11
I didn’t have a shower or anything, but after the wedding at dinner with my wedding party they surprised me with “lingerie” gifts. Not like crotchless panties or anything but some bras and underwear and robes and things like that. There was a random box of BDSM items though that came from my male bff apparently as a gag. That was fun to open in the middle of a brazilian steakhouse!
Post # 12
Those things aren’t usually interchangeable. A lingerie shower usually happens during the bachelorette party by the people you’d invite to that (i.e. not your mom and grandma). We did a shower for family and friends and then a lingerie shower during the bachelorette.
Post # 13
Now I want a wine shower! Or at least a stock the bar party…
Post # 14
i dont wear lingerier so i wouldnt want one
Post # 15
I really would not want my grandmother (or fiance’s grandmother or Mother-In-Law or my mother or really anyone for that matter) buying me lingerie that I would then have to open in front of a crowd of other people who would then immediately picture me having sex. But that’s just me.