- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
My bridal shower/bachelorette party invites will be sent out in a few weeks it’s a combined event. I’m doing a destination wedding with a reception back where we live do to the venue we have we need to keep out guest list to 100 people max. We are currently at 98. So here is my dilema I have old friends that I would love to have come to my bridal shower but do to our big families we can’t invite them to the reception. I’m not asking for any gifts for my shower and we are doing a nice italian dinner and then martinis all paid for by myself actually. Is it rude to invite them to the shower and not the wedding? I would invite them all if I could but I can’t.