- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2008
It has been a while since I have been on here.
I am having a bit of a issues recently. My cousin, who is like my sister (well better then my sisters) is getting married June 2012 and I already mentioned I wanted to plan and host the family bridal shower.
It seemed like everyone was on board with this until recently when I brought it up to my aunt, her step-mom, who has inturn planned the WHOLE bridal shower as a weekend get away and totally forgot that I wanted to plan it, which I am a bit hurt by. To add to the dilemma, my cousin doesn’t want to do this for her family bridal shower because she will have recently moved, switched jobs, etc and doesn’t think she will even be able to travel for her own shower. Our family is also quite large and a bridal shower normally consists of between 30 and 40 people being invited and coming to celebrate. I have even asked my cousin if this is what she wants or if I can take back over and plan the shower without the weekend get away…
I’m really confused on what to do….. If we don’t do what my aunt wants she will be pissed, but then my cousin isn’t doing what she wants to begin with in the first place – Getting married in Iowa instead of in St Louis, MO….
Any advice? or Help would be GREAT!