(Closed) Bridal Shower question….

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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4582 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Eh, I’m really not a fan of inviting people to the shower when they’re not invited to the wedding. You really should sit down and think about who you most want to attend the wedding and then only invite those people to the shower. Good luck!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I would only invite them to the shower if they can come to the wedding. I would be offended if I was only invited to the shower, mainly b/c I’d feel like all you wanted was a gift from me.

Post # 5
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10601 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

I would do 2 separate showers, if you think a lot of church people would come.  One for close friends and relatives who are invited and one for church people.  Your Maid/Matron of Honor doesn’t even have to organize both, you could talk to a friend at your church (or get your Maid/Matron of Honor to talk to someone to see if she could at least get help).

I would view the church shower similar to a coworkers shower.

Post # 6
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2600 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I agree with@AB Bride: – I would keep this shower wedding invitees only, as is ‘proper’ for most people, and then have a church event.  I’m sure they’ll be happy to join you, even knowing you can’t invite them all to the wedding.

Good luck!

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