Post # 1
I’m having my second shower tomorrow. And I’m not sure who I need to give hostess gifts too?
It’s at FMIL’s best friends home. But Future Mother-In-Law and Future Sister-In-Law are both contributing (FMIL is getting the cake, Future Sister-In-Law is making some food). Would you give gifts to all 3? Or just the one who is hosting at her home?
Any ideas on something budget friendly to get her? If all else fails I can make a trip to Bath and Body Works, but I felt like that’s kind of cliche and an easy gift.
Post # 3
Who organized the whole thing? Meaning – was Future Mother-In-Law the one driving it? and/or – what did your invites say?
As the bride, I’d say to thank the host (meaning, Future Mother-In-Law – if I’m guessing right). FMIL would in turn thank her support (her daughter and her BFF) – since they are not directly making the shower happen, but helping assist the host.
Post # 4
I think it was mostly Future Mother-In-Law and Future Mother-In-Law friend. The invitations didn’t say who was hosting. Maybe I’ll just get all 3 something small? I don’t want to get 2 of them something and not the 3rd..
Post # 5
I’d say just Future Mother-In-Law.. My first shower is given by my Future Mother-In-Law & I am giving her a bounded engagement booklet of our pictures, a card & a fountain type knick-knack thing. She collects them and have tons…
My 2nd shower, I am giving all my hostesses (which happen to be my bridesmaids lol) & mom a gift for putting it together.